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I love how much I can share with this woman.

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We go from super deep chats and tears to laughing our asses off at stupid things to talking about our businesses where 4 hours feel like 4 minutes or a minute 😃

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One thing that really stayed with me from today was you either go 💯 in or you don’t. You don’t do things halfway. Then that will be your result too. What are you putting your 💯 into? 🔥

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Thank you for such a beautiful, nourishing and fun day. I love you Amanda Dutson 😍💛🔥✨
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This is how you fold a fitted sheet 😃 

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Video - https://www.facebook.com/isik.tlabar/videos/10160727776500300/?t=137

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I saw this video of a woman folding a fitted sheet few weeks ago. I loved it, its just the best thing. I decided to do it and film it, so here it is 🙏🏼

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Life doesn’t have to be all serious and heavy all the time, it can be light, fun, playful and full of joy 💫

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So fold some fitted sheets and find the joy in your life 😃
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Here is the original video I was inspired by: https://www.facebook.com/victoryfortoday/videos/219382852025345/
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Early New Year's celebration with family 😍🎉✨

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Playing backgammon is a well known thing in Turkey and my uncle is really good at it, I found out he was the best in our family tonight. I'm proud to say I won 3-1 despite his verbal demoralisations :)
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I absolutely love board games. I get really competitive in them and usually win ☺️💙 
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Who loves board games? 🎲
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Let's play! I'll still love you even if you win 😃💛
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Wishing you a wonderful last day of 2017 ⭐️✨
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Today my man and I have been together for 1 year! 😍❤️

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One year of adventures, diving into each other's dreams, fears, triggers.. Going to new levels of love, growth and intimacy over and over again..
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I feel very grateful we're at this point. We might look like we have the perfect relationship from the outside. But its not perfect obviously. No relationship is what it looks like from the outside. We created this beautiful connection and love we share but it didn't happen overnight magically.
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We constantly push each other to grow together. Intimate relationships are such a huge mirror, it brings up all parts of you, especially the parts you don't want to see. And I'm so grateful in those moments one of us didn't go, that's it I had enough, its over 😃 Funnily enough these are the moments that brought us closer too.
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Last night we went through these questions and spent an hour looking back at what we created together in the past year ✨ 
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These are great questions Aaron made up. They help you see parts of your relationships you haven't noticed before and acknowledge more of what you have. Having these conversations stops you from taking the other person for granted as well. 
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Here are the fabulous questions 💁🏽✨
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1. What is your favourite memory of your first year together?
2. What is the most magical moment of the last year?
3.List your 5 favourite things about you as a couple
4. List your 5 favourite things about the other person
5. Has anything surprised you about your relationship?
6. What’s been the hardest thing that you’ve gone through?
7. What has brought you closer together so far?
8. When do you feel most loved?
9. What would you like more of in your relationship?
10. What would you like less of in your relationship?
11. What have you learnt this year in your relationship?
12. What would you like to unfold in your relationship over the next year?
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You can even prepare a whole evening around going through these questions with your partner to connect deeper ❤️ Have fun! 😉
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Loads of love to you all 💛

Love love love this woman!! 💖

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Thank you for a beautiful afternoon full of open hearted conversation (as always), dancing, shaking our bodies, making sounds, playing like kids and deep connection 🙌🏼💛

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I feel so grateful to have you Daisie in my life as a friend and a sister.. You're a gift to the world and an inspiration to me. I'm soo looking forward for our journey together 🌺
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Now on my way to the airport to see my love, so excited! 😍
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Have a gorgeous evening lovelies 🙏🏼💙
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✨ MAGICLAND ✨

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Only few more days until my love is back from India.. I've been meaning to share this story that happened 10 months ago so here it is 🙏🏼

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One evening in January, Aaron and I went to Richmond Park in this freezing cold. We arrived quite late, it was already getting dark. Not many people were there really. We walked up to one of the buildings where they do events, weddings etc. 

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We went in to find out what was happening in there. We saw this sign saying there was a wedding happening, so we went upstairs to see it ☺️

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It was a wedding for literally 30 people! Super small. We're wearing sneakers, jeans, jumpers btw while everyone is super dressed up 😃

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As we were standing there, I noticed this room where people were dancing. I said, 'Let's go in!'. Aaron got really scared and was insisting no. He was scared that someone was going to tell him off. We're pretty good at pushing each other to grow (while knowing our boundaries). Usually what I'm scared of, Aaron's not and what he's scared of, I'm not. So it works great.

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I have no problem with breaking the rules as that's what I always did anyway and I rarely get told off lol. I went in, then he came in too. We danced there to Abba, Dancing Queen 💖

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We left the room after our little dance. Aaron was a bit surprised seeing no one told us off and the fact that he did it anyway despite the fear 😍

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There was another room where they were serving some food. I said, 'No, that'll be too much.' Aaron asked, 'What would be too much?', smiling. It was my turn to go into my fear 😉

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After some resistance I had, we went into the room. I stood there nervous, anxious. It was this belief I had back then was playing out, I can't have what I want especially if its for free.

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During this whole time, no one has spoken to us btw, no one even looked at us. It's as if we were in this virtual reality hanging out in a bubble clearing our beliefs in turns.

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Right then, this waiter came up to me and said, 'Please help yourselves.' I was in shock receiving this clear message from the universe.. 

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I'm crying at this point. I thanked him, we approached the table. There was a man infront of me, he said the exact same thing and gave me his turn. I was like, 'Ok, OK, I got the message. I will eat food at this wedding we just crashed!' 😂

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I grabbed some food, half crying half eating it. Seeing what just happened, feeling this thing I know for a 'fact' to be crushed within minutes.. Aaron is watching me lovingly the whole time btw.

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Someone said, 'Group photo!'. We laughed, it was a cherry on top of the cake.. 

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We got in that photo obviously 😃 The bride and the groom came in. Only then a guy looked at us wondering who the hell we were. After the photo was taken, we ran out quickly 🙈

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We stood outside taking in what just happened.. It was all within an hour. As we looked back at the building we realised the gates were closed. As if it was telling us, 'Your mission here is complete' 😉 We put that memory in our heart 🙏🏼

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This was only a month after we met each other.. It was one of the few magiclands we've been into, pushing each other to face our beliefs to release them. We won't be told off and we can have what we want even for free.. So can you 💖

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Here's to Sonia and Frank, may you have a beautiful life together 😍

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Lots of love to you! 

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Have a gorgeous week ahead 💙✨ 

😝 BEING PLAYFUL WITH LIFE 😝

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Life is not meant to be a struggle, it's meant to be a playful and joyful ride 🙌🏼

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When things get tough, you might have a tendency to take things seriously.. You might get rigid wanting things to be in a specific way. Then you might get upset if they're not that way. You might get angry, drop everything off and withdraw..
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Doesn't sound fun, does it?
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Things can feel like very difficult, yes, but adding playfulness to the situation, only lightens it.. The only thing is, Ego doesn't like it. It loves being right, being serious so whenever you are resistant to being playful and having fun, know that that's your Ego..
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Things will become easier as you do this because you're lightening the energy of the density you're feeling.
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Especially if you're someone constantly working on yourself, growing, letting go of conditioning, following your path etc, its easy to forget adding playfulness into this growth ☺️💛 It becomes a serious task, to be who you truly are.. Then you build an image of who you think you are, what you think you should do. Now that you're awaken, you have to be in a certain way, no fun allowed, sorry 😃
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I'm not saying jump up and down, have fun and forget all responsibilities, be aware of what needs to get done and be silly. Adding play and humour into your daily life goes a long way ✨
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Aaron and I have fun, joke around most of the time making fun of parts of ourselves we're not totally comfortable with, lovingly obviously 😃 When humour comes in, that area stops being a sensitive subject and has no charge anymore..
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Few ideas to connect with your playfulness 😉
- Play your favourite childhood game with a friend or your lover. Hide and seek, playing puzzle, it, hangman, charades, whatever it is. You're never too old to play your childhood game 🙌🏼
- When an opportunity to do impressions show up, take that opportunity like its the last thing you're doing in this life. Let go of who you think you are and give that impression everything you got.. Because you're not you anymore in that moment, you're the person you're imitating.. Works great if the person you're with is in their Ego, gets them right back to who they truly are 😉
- Grab a friend, ask each other questions like 'Would you rather not speak at all or not hear at all?' And you have to choose one ☺️ I play this with Aaron and he really enjoys making it hard 😂 It's great game to use your imagination and get to know each other ✨
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You are born playful. Somewhere along the line, you might have forgetten that part of you that plays with life. That part never dies. It waits for you to remember patiently so you can come out and play again 🎉
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What does being playful mean to you? What was/is your favourite game to play? Comment below lovelies ☺️💜
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Much love to you 😘
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