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Today my man and I have been together for 1 year! 😍❤️

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One year of adventures, diving into each other's dreams, fears, triggers.. Going to new levels of love, growth and intimacy over and over again..
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I feel very grateful we're at this point. We might look like we have the perfect relationship from the outside. But its not perfect obviously. No relationship is what it looks like from the outside. We created this beautiful connection and love we share but it didn't happen overnight magically.
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We constantly push each other to grow together. Intimate relationships are such a huge mirror, it brings up all parts of you, especially the parts you don't want to see. And I'm so grateful in those moments one of us didn't go, that's it I had enough, its over 😃 Funnily enough these are the moments that brought us closer too.
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Last night we went through these questions and spent an hour looking back at what we created together in the past year ✨ 
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These are great questions Aaron made up. They help you see parts of your relationships you haven't noticed before and acknowledge more of what you have. Having these conversations stops you from taking the other person for granted as well. 
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Here are the fabulous questions 💁🏽✨
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1. What is your favourite memory of your first year together?
2. What is the most magical moment of the last year?
3.List your 5 favourite things about you as a couple
4. List your 5 favourite things about the other person
5. Has anything surprised you about your relationship?
6. What’s been the hardest thing that you’ve gone through?
7. What has brought you closer together so far?
8. When do you feel most loved?
9. What would you like more of in your relationship?
10. What would you like less of in your relationship?
11. What have you learnt this year in your relationship?
12. What would you like to unfold in your relationship over the next year?
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You can even prepare a whole evening around going through these questions with your partner to connect deeper ❤️ Have fun! 😉
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Loads of love to you all 💛

✨ MAGICLAND ✨

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Only few more days until my love is back from India.. I've been meaning to share this story that happened 10 months ago so here it is 🙏🏼

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One evening in January, Aaron and I went to Richmond Park in this freezing cold. We arrived quite late, it was already getting dark. Not many people were there really. We walked up to one of the buildings where they do events, weddings etc. 

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We went in to find out what was happening in there. We saw this sign saying there was a wedding happening, so we went upstairs to see it ☺️

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It was a wedding for literally 30 people! Super small. We're wearing sneakers, jeans, jumpers btw while everyone is super dressed up 😃

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As we were standing there, I noticed this room where people were dancing. I said, 'Let's go in!'. Aaron got really scared and was insisting no. He was scared that someone was going to tell him off. We're pretty good at pushing each other to grow (while knowing our boundaries). Usually what I'm scared of, Aaron's not and what he's scared of, I'm not. So it works great.

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I have no problem with breaking the rules as that's what I always did anyway and I rarely get told off lol. I went in, then he came in too. We danced there to Abba, Dancing Queen 💖

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We left the room after our little dance. Aaron was a bit surprised seeing no one told us off and the fact that he did it anyway despite the fear 😍

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There was another room where they were serving some food. I said, 'No, that'll be too much.' Aaron asked, 'What would be too much?', smiling. It was my turn to go into my fear 😉

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After some resistance I had, we went into the room. I stood there nervous, anxious. It was this belief I had back then was playing out, I can't have what I want especially if its for free.

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During this whole time, no one has spoken to us btw, no one even looked at us. It's as if we were in this virtual reality hanging out in a bubble clearing our beliefs in turns.

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Right then, this waiter came up to me and said, 'Please help yourselves.' I was in shock receiving this clear message from the universe.. 

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I'm crying at this point. I thanked him, we approached the table. There was a man infront of me, he said the exact same thing and gave me his turn. I was like, 'Ok, OK, I got the message. I will eat food at this wedding we just crashed!' 😂

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I grabbed some food, half crying half eating it. Seeing what just happened, feeling this thing I know for a 'fact' to be crushed within minutes.. Aaron is watching me lovingly the whole time btw.

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Someone said, 'Group photo!'. We laughed, it was a cherry on top of the cake.. 

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We got in that photo obviously 😃 The bride and the groom came in. Only then a guy looked at us wondering who the hell we were. After the photo was taken, we ran out quickly 🙈

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We stood outside taking in what just happened.. It was all within an hour. As we looked back at the building we realised the gates were closed. As if it was telling us, 'Your mission here is complete' 😉 We put that memory in our heart 🙏🏼

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This was only a month after we met each other.. It was one of the few magiclands we've been into, pushing each other to face our beliefs to release them. We won't be told off and we can have what we want even for free.. So can you 💖

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Here's to Sonia and Frank, may you have a beautiful life together 😍

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Lots of love to you! 

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Have a gorgeous week ahead 💙✨