playfulness

This is how you fold a fitted sheet 😃 

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Video - https://www.facebook.com/isik.tlabar/videos/10160727776500300/?t=137

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I saw this video of a woman folding a fitted sheet few weeks ago. I loved it, its just the best thing. I decided to do it and film it, so here it is 🙏🏼

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Life doesn’t have to be all serious and heavy all the time, it can be light, fun, playful and full of joy 💫

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So fold some fitted sheets and find the joy in your life 😃
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Here is the original video I was inspired by: https://www.facebook.com/victoryfortoday/videos/219382852025345/
❤️
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😛 HAVE FUN & BE SILLY 😛

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😛 HAVE FUN & BE SILLY 😛

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I wrote about this a while ago but I feel like writing about it again 🙌🏼

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It's easy to prioritise getting stuff done and putting having fun to the second plan. You might feel like fun is something you do extra with your spare time. Things aren't that easy, life is hard and there's no time for fun.
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But actually, you can do things in a playful way. Working on yourself, growing, going for your vision, healing, these things don't have to be serious. That's just a way, but not the only way. It can be light, easy and fun. If you decide its hard and intense, it will be hard and intense. When you choose it to be easy and fun, it will be that..
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If you're a mum, you might go, yeah but I don't have time for fun. Being mum is a serious thing. I'm not a mum but I'm working with a woman who has 3 kids. She was tellling me the other morning they all had to go to the supermarket. Rather than telling them to get ready and getting angry, she turned it into a game of who will get ready the quickest. She has never seen them get ready that fast before 😃
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You're doing the same thing but adding bit of fun, game, joy into it. By embodying that playfulness, you become a living demonstration to those who don't agree with you. You show it by being you ✨
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Here are some suggestions how you can add a bit more playfulness and lightness into your life:
- 5 mins dance every day moving your body weird and silly ways without thinking
- Actively seek the moments where you can be playful. When you feel joy do a silly dance 💁🏽
- When things feel hard and like a struggle, decide its easy and it will be easy
- Turn tasks into a game and reward yourself when you complete them
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As you are being playful, enjoying your happiness, you'll see that your happiness will spread to people around you too.
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And if you have people looking laughing at you, let them be. Secretly they want to join you 😉
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When was the last time you were being silly? What did you do?
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Sending you lots of love and joy ❤️
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😝 BEING PLAYFUL WITH LIFE 😝

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Life is not meant to be a struggle, it's meant to be a playful and joyful ride 🙌🏼

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When things get tough, you might have a tendency to take things seriously.. You might get rigid wanting things to be in a specific way. Then you might get upset if they're not that way. You might get angry, drop everything off and withdraw..
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Doesn't sound fun, does it?
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Things can feel like very difficult, yes, but adding playfulness to the situation, only lightens it.. The only thing is, Ego doesn't like it. It loves being right, being serious so whenever you are resistant to being playful and having fun, know that that's your Ego..
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Things will become easier as you do this because you're lightening the energy of the density you're feeling.
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Especially if you're someone constantly working on yourself, growing, letting go of conditioning, following your path etc, its easy to forget adding playfulness into this growth ☺️💛 It becomes a serious task, to be who you truly are.. Then you build an image of who you think you are, what you think you should do. Now that you're awaken, you have to be in a certain way, no fun allowed, sorry 😃
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I'm not saying jump up and down, have fun and forget all responsibilities, be aware of what needs to get done and be silly. Adding play and humour into your daily life goes a long way ✨
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Aaron and I have fun, joke around most of the time making fun of parts of ourselves we're not totally comfortable with, lovingly obviously 😃 When humour comes in, that area stops being a sensitive subject and has no charge anymore..
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Few ideas to connect with your playfulness 😉
- Play your favourite childhood game with a friend or your lover. Hide and seek, playing puzzle, it, hangman, charades, whatever it is. You're never too old to play your childhood game 🙌🏼
- When an opportunity to do impressions show up, take that opportunity like its the last thing you're doing in this life. Let go of who you think you are and give that impression everything you got.. Because you're not you anymore in that moment, you're the person you're imitating.. Works great if the person you're with is in their Ego, gets them right back to who they truly are 😉
- Grab a friend, ask each other questions like 'Would you rather not speak at all or not hear at all?' And you have to choose one ☺️ I play this with Aaron and he really enjoys making it hard 😂 It's great game to use your imagination and get to know each other ✨
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You are born playful. Somewhere along the line, you might have forgetten that part of you that plays with life. That part never dies. It waits for you to remember patiently so you can come out and play again 🎉
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What does being playful mean to you? What was/is your favourite game to play? Comment below lovelies ☺️💜
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Much love to you 😘
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