lettinggo

✨ DEATH ✨

Death is in a way, letting go.

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Often death is overlooked as a “bad” thing. It’s something not many people are willing to talk about. It makes most people uncomfortable. It makes them face their darkness.
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Death can also be a closure, letting go, a new chapter and transformation. It can be a great teacher.
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In order to create and grow, sometimes you need to let go of an older version of you. Maybe the next part of your life requires a different version of you.
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When a part of you wants to move forward but another part of you holds on for dear life, then you feel stuck. So you stay where you are in agony. Where you go will be determined by which part you choose to give more power and energy to.
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In metamorphosis, there’s a stage where the caterpillar stops being a caterpillar, its not a butterfly yet either. Then it makes up the beautiful parts of the butterfly and becomes it. It doesn’t go, “Actually I changed my mind, can I be a caterpillar again please?” Now you’re not a butterfly, you can change your mind and go back to safety and compromise of course. But if it’s not fulfilling, why would you? 🦋
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If you’re going through that weird in between phase where you’re not where you used to be but you’re not where you want to be either, here are few reminders for you:
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✨ Trust that you have everything you need. You came up until this point, what makes you think you won’t be able to make it after this? Trust that you will be held in the unknown until you find your feet again.
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✨ Let go of control and the need to know. You only know what happened in the past, you don’t know what will happen in thr future. And you can’t control it. Surrender and trust.
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✨ Let everything go. Let go of the idea of who you used to be. Let go of the past. Let go of expectations.
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✨ Don’t compare yourself with others. You have no idea what they’re going through. Once you talk with them and if they’re honest, you’ll find out no one has their sh*t together.
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✨ Once you see the lesson, there’s no need to hold on. Give thanks and move on. Would you rather be right or free?
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If you feel like this is where you are and you’d like some support in letting go, come to the group breathwork journey this Friday 🔥
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I care about people connecting to who they truly are. Underneath all the layers, who are you? This requires letting go on some levels. Breathwork can be a very powerful and fast way to do this. That’s why I love it ❤️
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We have 10 spaces left.
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27 Sept Friday
Centre 151, Haggerston
6:30-9:30pm
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Link to book is below ✨
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https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4330099
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Come join! 😍❤️🔥
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I love you 💛
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💛 BE PRESENT & SURRENDER 💛

I have a story to share with you all.

2 weeks ago my phone died, literally dead, no life. And our house didn't have a broadband for a bit due to people moving in and out. Plus I forgot my watch at my friend's house 😃

So I was there like no phone, no internet, no watch. Totally disconnected from the world and I don't know the time.

Partly it happened because this is the time I really started being in my power and started creating things I love doing. It was like, 'ok let's disconnect and distract you a bit'. Once I saw that though, I relaxed, I thought I'll just enjoy this few days without a phone.

It turned out to be magical.

Usually I listen to music when I walk, didn't have that so only option was to be present and look around. Same on the tube, it felt like I'm seeing things for the first time. I thought I was pretty present normally, but this was like a new level.

I used the internet once a day from a cafe nearby to contact some people. So told my friend who I was meeting up the next day the situation, and we agreed on a time and place to meet up. I asked people how to get there, looked for signs and stuff. Literally everything pushed me to be present and surrender. No control whatsoever.

My friend arrived saying 'Sorry I'm late'. It was kinda funny because time didn't exist for me in those last few days. I had more space than having more time.

I only knew the time from the board in the underground btw:) somehow not having a watch nor phone, I was super on time. Didn't have a phone to distract myself basically.

Then.. I bought a new phone. Put on there my emails, apps and all that.

I realised all the photos were gone, weren't backed on icloud. Half of my contacts and all my notes.. Where I write stuff down when things come to me.. I was like oh my god.. Felt super down.. I was actually attaching myself to all those magical experiences I had in the last 2-3 months.

I came home and I had a package. My boyfriend sent me the book "Letting Go". So funny:) basically saying 'ok time to start from scratch'..

It was freedom once I surrendered and let go of trying to control and to know..

Being present with whatever experience you're having is the best way to go through it. When you're present, you realise it's not as bad, as scary as you imagined it to be. It just is. And that's when you surrender. Then everything just relaxes and falls into place..

Now I'm super happy with my new phone and few photos I got 😄

Much love to you all 💜 🔮