authentic self

🎭 BEING YOURSELF 🎭

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When you are yourself you feel loved and seen for who you truly are.

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You might feel like you need to behave in a certain way to get love. You have to do something to deserve love because you can't just get love by doing nothing.
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Or you need to put a mask on to keep everyone happy except you. You need to blend and mold in without being too much of a rebel. To do this, loads of your energy goes into figuring out the situation unconsciously, people so you can blend in. Otherwise, if you reveal yourself to the world you will be betrayed by those you love.
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The truth is you're not defined by other people and other people are not defined by you. People have their own perceptions going on which they're acting out from and that doesn't mean anything about you.
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Next time when you're trying to be in a certain way you think you should be, try these steps:
- Close your eyes.
- Ask yourself 'What's holding me back from being myself?'
- Allow yourself to feel that emotion and ask yourself when you first felt that emotion.
- See that time forming infront of you. What are the decisions you are making about the world and yourself in that moment?
- Imagine looking at the situation from high above, through the eyes of your higher self, your true self. What actually happened? What was other person scared of?
- Come back to the present moment and see what's the true action for you to do for yourself if no one you care about existed.
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When you are not yourself and see that you are being loved you don't receive that love fully because that love came to the masked version of you.
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But when you are truly yourself and when you see that you're celebrated and loved for who you are, that's when you fully feel loved, seen and heard. You have nothing to hide now and you just proved that you can be yourself. It's a beautiful feeling ☺️💛
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Would love to hear from you, comment below your thoughts lovelies 👇🏼
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Much love to you 💞
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