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🌻 IT'S SAFE TO BE YOU 🌻

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I've been working on this yesterday and today. 

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Sometimes you might feel like its not safe to be you. You'll be ridiculed, people will judge you or not accept you for who you are.
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The truth is you're creating those reactions. Whatever people are telling you that triggers or annoys you has a potential of something to be cleared and released within you. If it wasn't related to your pain, you wouldn't be triggered at all. You'll just be neutral, and thats how you know you cleared something. When something that used to annoy you doesn't annoy you anymore. Be honest with yourself though 😃
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Those decisions you made in the past as a coping mechanism to exist in the world are just decisions and definitions. They're not the truth. They're like band aids.
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You decide that you can't express yourself in the world because its not safe. You decide you have to control every single thing otherwise you won't be able to protect yourself. You decide you can't trust anyone because people are not safe, they will hurt you. Then that starts showing up over and over again, same scenario but with different setting and characters.
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You end up trying so hard on keeping that going otherwise things will fall apart. And you start falling away from being who you truly are.
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You don't have to find who you are, you just need to peel off the layers of what you are not. Then you'll be who you are, fully.
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You can still find your purpose and go for it. But unless you release the weights, it'll be like trying to run with a rucksack..
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Next time, someone triggers you, ask yourself:
- What is this showing me?
- What's the lesson I need to learn?
- How am I showing up to create this?
- What is the one thing I'm absolutely avoiding from happening?
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You'll be surprised in what comes up and the very thing you most disguise in that person might exist within you 😉
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Do you have blocks around being you? Or do you find it easy to be yourself, if so what helped you to get there?
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Comment below or PM me if you don't wanna share publicly 🙌🏼
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Loads of love to you 💜✨
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